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There’s always been a middle-class “struggle.” Money was tight, and luxuries were rare, but times change. What once felt like a rich-kid dream is now everyday life, and some things we once counted as necessities are now obsolete.

Consider these memories from childhood:

  1. Having a computer in the house. Back then, it felt like rich-kid stuff. Now, it’s basically required to exist.
  2. A dishwasher. I was the dishwasher growing up. Today, most homes have one.
  3. Long-distance calling. Parents set timers to avoid huge bills. Now, I can video call someone in Tokyo for free.
  4. Physical encyclopedias. Owning a full set meant you were smart… and well-off.
  5. Dad works one job, five days a week, Mom is home every day. A family ideal that rarely exists anymore.
  6. A car with air conditioning. Once a luxury, now an expectation.
  7. Tech entertainment. Color TVs, VCRs, HBO, and gaming consoles were once indulgences. Today, nearly every teenager has a personal screen.
  8. Cordless or car phones. Cutting-edge then, obsolete now.
  9. Water beds. Dreamy, but gone from most bedrooms.
  10. High-speed internet. A luxury for tech-savvy families in the ’90s; now essential.
  11. Microwaves. Expensive, massive, and special—today they’re standard.
  12. Flying. Once for the wealthy or business travelers. Now, millions fly every year.
  13. Fridges with ice and filtered water. Once a status symbol, now just a convenience.

Looking back, it’s striking how quickly luxury becomes normal, and normal becomes nostalgic. Middle-class struggles remain, but what counts as “a treat” has changed with the times.

Doug O’Brien